Conversations to have during and after sex


Here’s how to do it right.

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‘I love it when you…’

As much you are wondering how well you’re doing him he also would love get some assurance that he’s doing it right. If you lose your mind when you he goes down on you or licks your nipples then tell him. Careful not to over do it, once is enough and remember to put your sexy voice on.


Some might say this is a given but there are people who keep quiet for the entire session. You end up asking yourself endless questions about whether he’s enjoying it or not.


This is of course something to say after sex, unless you’re really stunned by looking at his penis. Simplicity is key, so by saying this you’ve already let him know that he did you right.

‘Right there’

You’re sort of guiding him to where you want to be played with by using just a few words. It could be that move he does when he’s behind you or what he does with his tongue. Let him know that he’s doing you right and you love it.

‘Thank you’

You know those days when you’re having a really bad day and all you need is good sex? This is for those days. Once in a while he should say it back as well, sex is a precious gift and he should appreciate that.

‘How was it?

Approach this with caution, if you’re really ready to hear the uncoated truth then go ask ahead and ask

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