Dealing with his female friends


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Become allies

If you take time to learn the type of person she is, then fears of them hooking up can be at ease. Invite her over for lunch and get close to her as much as your man is.

Get enough information about her

He needs to tell you how long they’ve been friends, whether she’s single or not,were they ever romantic or sexual at some point? All of these are imporant pointers you need for you to be comfortable with their friendship.

Plan dates with her

Whenever they plan to go out make sure you’re there, better yet she can also bring her partner. If there’s anything going on between them their body language will give it away. This will also give you a chance to see how she behaves around your man.

Get him to set the ground rules

Some friendship are geniune, whilst others are written sinister all over them. if the friend has a ‘man stealing’ behavior like calling or texting in the middle of the night, then it’s your man’s duty to put her in a place if he respects you and the relationship.

Give the friendship a chance

Try approaching this as calmly as possible, be yourself. If you immediately have attitude towards her chances are you’ll start seeing things that aren’t there.

Avoid being manipulative

Don’t try to break their friendship for no reason at all. Always ask yourself how you’d want the situation to be treated should the tables be turned.

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