Fun ways to give yourself pleasure


If you’re one to get kinky, self pleasure should be on top of your to do list. We give you ideas on how to actually reach a level of satisfaction.

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Know your body

How often do you nag your partner about not being able to find your G-spot, give you a nipple arousal or not knowing how to stimulate your clit? You need to know what it is precisely that tickles your fancy and be able to guide your partner the next time you do deed together.

Get a sex toy

These come in different shapes, forms and sizes, but they are not for everyone; you need to find one that works for you. Desir conducted a survey on the demand for sex toys, a few of celebrities shared their vews on this matter. For actress Manaka Ranaka dildos don’t do it for her as prefers a breathing human being. She feels dildos make her have unrealistic expectations. Unlike Manaka, if you enjoy using dildos start by setting the mood, close the curtains, light candles and have sexy music in the background. Start slowly by doing short strokes and use the rest of it to get a good grip of the dildo instead of thrusting deeply all at once in the beginning.


The wetter the better right? According to author of Lube Jobs Debra Macleod, women can be aroused but still not produce enough natural lubricant, now that’s where lube comes into play. It will make all the touches you’re going to do be more smoother and retain the rhythm that most women need in order to reach orgasm. Much like actress and radio personality Khanyi Mbau, if you enjoy using your fingers Dr Herbenick reccomends using liquid lubricant. Apply a small amount to the tip of your fingers, use them to slide in whichever body part you fancy and this should get you going.

Watch porn or read erotic stories

These can be found on different sexual sites and magazines so it’s easily accesible. Watching porn often makes women more comfortable with their sexuality and they get to do this on their own terms. Porn gives you the liberty of choosing what works for you, what relates more to your personality, and what you’re not comfortable with. We also love the idea that you’re able to get ideas of what to try with your man to keep your sexlife strong.

Nipple play

Massaging your nipples can also release great pleasure. Do circular motions around your nipple repeatedly, this is usually the last step after buliding anticipation from all the above techniques. Your nipples will start to harden and they will allow you to gently pinch them. For as long as the nipples are aroused you’re guaranteed to get pleaure from this, don’t forget to breathe when doing this.

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