
Winter is a lonely time for many singletons.
Make him interestedA simple ‘don’t you want to come over’ text is not going to cut it. He needs to know that he isn’t wasting his fuel driving all the way to your house. Cosy him up with sexy nothings to grab his attention.
Be on the same pageIt should be clear from the get go that there isn’t even a slightest chance that you two will ever date, it’s only physical.
Inform him about your sexless lifeNow that you’ve got him interested, drop hints of how long you’ve stayed without getting some action, and that you’re longing for a good shag.
Shift the focus from himDuring your midnight texts, ask him to hook you up with his friend. The jealousy in him will strike and he’ll immediately come over, no man wants to pass over a shag to one of his friends.
Play with his imaginationIf he asks what you’re busy with it’s always good to respond with something that’ll keep his imagination busy. Tell him you’ve just had shower or you just shaved, the thought of you naked will draw him even closer.
Set the date and timeThis can happenen over the phone or text and the best part about it is that you don’t have to try so hard. You’ve both established what you want from each other so there’ll be no need for dressing up, or setting a romantic scene.
Don’t sleepoverWe repeat, whatever you do, don’t sleepover after a booty call. This is to avoid unnecessary pressure of waking up next to each other, making breakfast and borrowing of T-shirts, all the things that make women catch feelings.