Guidelines for taking a break from your relationship


Your break will either benefit your relationship or break it. Here’s a useful guideline to follow.

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Both parties need to agree

You can’t be in this break alone. This needs to a mutual agreement to avoid any confusions when he rocks up at your door unexpected. If one of you isn’t on board then rather sit down and talk things through.

Use this time to assess the relationship

You’re on a ‘break’ because there’s something going downhill in the relationship. The time out will allow you to check whether he make you happy, are you learning anything from this relationship or is it a complete waste of time.

Have a time frame

It’s a break after all, not a break up. So don’t let it drag longer than it’s supposed to. Take a few weeks to work on yourselves and come back as better people.

Don’t use it as reason to date

You’re still together, so don’t use this as an opportunity to date other people. The reason why most breaks turn into break-ups is because people fall of the wagon.

Control being horny

Your cuddle buddy isn’t there but that’s no excuse to have one night stands. Get that vibrator from the drawer and give pleasure yourself girl.

Spend time apart

… literally, don’t visit, go for dates or all the other things that couples do. Avoid being in each other faces. Absence does make the heart fonder right?

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