Habits to start practising early in the relationship

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Happy relationships don't just happen over night, it takes time and effort.  Here's what to start practising early in the relationship.

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Seal every hello and goodbye with a kiss will not take more than five minutes to greet and say bye to your partner in a proper way. Remember you’re not roommates, you’re a couple, there should be a difference.

Study their body language

Sometimes he doesn’t need to utter the words for you to know that something is wrong. This saves you a lot of time and stress trying to figure what whether he’s sad, moody or angry.

Do everything as a team

Include him when taking decisions, ask for his opinion and he will do the same. It’s always best to work as a team because it increases your chances of accomplishing anything you want.

When in doubt, ask!

Nothing is as bad as accusing someone for something he clearly knows nothing about. It’s always better to get clarity first before jumping to conclusion.

Stop being paranoid

Don’t let paranoia get to you. Having thoughts like, ‘he doesn’t find me attractive anymore’ or ‘he’s probably cheating on me’ can destroy a relationship as you start seeing and believing things that aren’t there.

Don’t fight in public

It’s embarassing for a small boy to be yelled at in public, what more a grown man. Wait until you’re able to get private time at home before addressing an issue that made you angry.

Don’t stop saying I love you

Not that he needs a reminder but saying this in unexpected moments helps the two of you stay connected and excited about each other. There isn’t such a thing as saying it too much.

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