How friends can ruin your relationship


Here’s how:

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Disrespecting your partner

In all times, your friends must respect your partner regardless of how comfortable she is with him. Disrespect in terms of speaking unkindly of your partner in his presence will belittle him. If you suspect one of the friends is in any way disrespecting your partner it’s best you address this before it goes out of hand.

They give you bad advice

If you can’t get advice from friends then from who? You should however handle this with caution as some friends can give you bad advice. A friend constantly telling you to break up with your partner for the tiniest issue isn’t to be trusted.

Confiding in friends more than your partner

A good friend should know your good and bad secrets, however if you find yourself confiding in a friend more than your partner then there’s a problem. Your partner should be your go to person more than a friend.

They know the in’s and out’s of your relationship

This is a recipe for disaster. Friends can use this information to destroy you personally, your partner or your relationship as a whole. Some things should be kept between you and your partner, unless if it’s a case of abuse.

Friends who encourage cheating

You can never go out with these friends without them trying to hook you up with a guy knowing that you’re in a relationship. These friends are dangerous to have as you’ll never know to what lengths they can go just for you to be irresponsible.

The ‘he’s not good enough’ friends

According to them none of your boyfriends are ever good enough. They always find something negative to say. Once negative thoughts are instilled in your heard it’s quiet easy to ruin something perfect.

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