How to catch a cheating partner


Are you convinced that your partner is cheating, even though you haven’t found any proof yet? You’ve even confronted him about it but nothing comes out of it. Sometimes you may go overboard because you’re insecure, but your instincts could be right. Here are ways to help you find the proof you need:


Hidden camera

Place a camera in the room where he usually hangs out alone. If he’s cheating, it won’t take you that long to catch him in the act; be it him calling his other girlfriend or sending texts You will also find out all about the things he does behind your back.

Create a fake account

Invite random friends to make your account seem legit. After a few posts invite your partner and become friendly with him. And then, start flirting just to see his response. You can also ask him to meet and if he’s interested, it’s clear in black and white that he’s a cheater.

Get a friend to spy on him

Ask your friend to follow him around from the house to wherever he’s going because chances are he’s going to meet up with the other girlfriend. He won’t notice your friend’s car that is following him. She’ll get all the proof that you need without him suspecting that you’re onto him.

Check his pockets

Men like to put slips in their pockets after purchasing something. Check those slips – the things he bought, do that make sense to you?  You might also find hotel and bank slips too. Do your home and make copies of everything that you come across for evidence.

GPS device

Install a tiny GPS device under your partner’s car; that way you can track his movements and pounce on him with his pants down in some hotel. If he goes into some restaurant with his girlfriend, you can rock up there and greet them just to show him you caught him in his act.

Check his computer

This might be tricky if his laptop is protected by a password. Hopefully you know it off-by heart. Go to his desktop and check what’s in the recycle bin. What is it that he’s recently deleted? As the saying goes: “a man’s trash can, can reveal a lot about his lifestyle.

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