How to plan the perfect ‘shag date’


That’s when you should have ‘shag dates’. Don’t complicate it, let it be just that.

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Both of you must be prepared

At this point we assume you’ve already discussed it with him. The both of you should be mentally and physically prepared. Do research on your favourite sex position, what you want to try and how you think it’s going to make you feel.

Set the mood

Scents, music and dim lighting usually are the go-to for setting a sexy mood. If your date will be in the bedroom, play some slow jams on a low volume,with scented candles to give the room a nice ambience. Massage oils, lube and condoms also come in handy for foreplay and massages.

Body prep

A few sessions of yoga prior to your steamy date will impove your flexibility. Slip on something sexy which is easy for the man to take off. Make sure you smell great and maybe add some heels while you’re at it, you’ll appear taller and your bum will be accentuated enough for him to be aroused at first sight.

Tease him

Build up excitement and anticipation for your date. Send him kinky text like “you’re my slave tonight”. A picture showing a glimpse of your lingerie or hints on what you want him to do to your later on will do the trick. This will fill his mind with dirty thoughts all day.

Ready, set, go!

Now that its all system’s go, tell him to come home and let him find you eagerly waiting for him by the door. Grab him from the time he arrives and head to the bedroom. Remember not to get straight into it, start with some foreplay and enjoy the date. Ooh la la!

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