How to Tell if You're Just His Rebound

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Screen Shot 2017-01-27 at 3.38.54 PM He talks about his ex This is something that is not right at all, unless you’re using him as your rebound guy too. He talks about how she hurt him. Honestly if he constantly talks about his ex, you’re his rebound because a person who is ready to be in a relationship doesn’t constantly talk about someone else. Physically intimate too soon It hasn’t been a month since you started dating and already he wants to have sex with you. A guy who loves you will first try to get to know you before he jumps in bed with you. If he wants to get physically intimate too soon it’s because he’s trying to compensate what’s missing in his life. Sex is a way of distracting him from thinking about the break up. You’ve never met his family or friends After a few months of dating, surely you should have met at least one of his relatives or friends because those are people in his life and you’re part of it now. A man who is interested in you wouldn’t hesitate to introduce you to his friends or family. If that’s not happening, then you should wake up and smell the coffee. His friends are surprised by you This one is in black and white that you are nothing but a rebound. If you hear his friends (if you lucky enough to get to meet them) say they can’t believe he’s already in a relationship with someone else, considering how much he loved his ex and the way the break up affected him. Run, girl!

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