Is your Man Crush husband material?


Screen-Shot-2016-06-21-at-1.45.14-PM-copy.jpg It’s highly disturbing to note the criteria many sisters (and brothers) use in choosing lovers and life partners. It’d seem looks are still up there on top of the list of the criteria used. When you blast this as shallow you get ladies telling you they are not about the life of giving birth to ugly babies. Deep. The challenge is pretty boys often think they are God’s gift to women, every woman wants them and they can get any woman they want. Do you really want to live with that headache? Truth is, yes, a lot of women wants him. He posts a picture of himself on social networks and gets 900 likes, most from women, some way more gorgeous than you. Women love him – they want him. You got to be a very strong character to handle this kind of a guy. If the school of thought that suggests that many men are as loyal as their options is true – you are in serious trouble then if this is your future hubby. If you were to go to his inbox you’ll be wailing at the amount of attention he’s getting from the opposite sex; unsolicited nudes are not uncommon. But the wonderful news is that he chose YOU, and not every pretty boy is a playa, though most are. I honestly believe super good looks should be a bonus when choosing a life partner, you are not in high school anymore where dating the hottest guy in school made you the envy of every girl, and some guys! Maybe you should be looking for a man who can be a great father, a man who will fully accept your child from your previous relationship. A man with a level head, a man with a solid plan for his future – that’s the man you should be crushing on. A man with ambition beyond sleeping with every hot woman who has a crush on him. Yes, contrary to popular belief, men say ‘No’ to sex every day. A man who will consider himself the luckiest guy on earth for being your man. Not the one who thinks you should consider yourself lucky to have him. In fact, since so many women would kill to end up with a wealthy guy, wealthy guys are the new ‘pretty-boys’, they know they are in high demand and short-supply so often their attitude towards women is as rotten as that of many pretty-boys. Go for substance, sister.

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