Make him fall for you

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Have you ever wondered what happened after you met a guy you like, but the conversation just fizzled into nothing? Screen Shot 2016-09-16 at 2.57.33 PM Show him your zest for life Yes, yes, yes ­– the world can be an ugly place and you just can’t seem to catch a break. But, if you really want to stand a chance with any guy, you have to leave your grumpiness at home. Guys are naturally attracted to women who have a zest for life. So keep your focus on the positive instead of dwelling in all the wrongs in your life.

Don’t be afraid to show that you are passionate about something, while still making sure that you also allow him time to speak. Laugh of awkward moments and it’ll make the conversation much easier.

Whether you just met the guy, or you’re on your first date, show him that you are kind.

Show him you’re interested

Being a little vague about your feelings for him at first is important as you don’t want to appear thirsty. But a little assurance that you are, indeed, interested in what he has to say can go a long way to scoring the guy you attracted to. So, when you meet for the first time, avoid being dismissive or uninterested.

The best way to do it is pick a general subject to talk about. If he says ‘so, where are you from?’ You can respond with an answer and return the question. Then make the place his from the topic and show that you want to know more. Be confident Be confident and show that you have no problem expressing yourself. You know how hard it is to even approach someone who seems like they are just not having fun. From your body language to the way you behave and carry yourself can be the deciding factor in whether or not you get a date or a second one. Look the part Make an effort to look your best. And pilling on loads of make-up and wearing clothes that are too tight show that you’ve made an effort but it probably went south. So try and keep it clean and simple, but sophisticated. When it comes to make-up, less is more when going out on date because you don’t want to appear high maintenance, and some guys are not into women who wear too much make-up Bring your sexy with you Without being too obvious, show him that you are interested in more than just friendship. Sitting a little closer and being comfortable with little touch on the hand and hugging at the beginning and end of the date can make all the difference.

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