Relationships you need to have before marriage


There’s no sneaking out for casual sex or one night stands. Get this is out of the way before you accept that ring.

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Friends with benefits

People often fall into this trap without even realising it. It usually happens with that dude you really get along with. Casually you take it to the sheets with no strings attached. You remain good friends afterwards. It could happen once or 10 times if you liked it that much.

Long distance

“I would never”, says a lot of people who haven’t had long distance as their only option. Wait until you love someone so much that distance doesn’t even bother you. Succeeding at this can’t guarantee you a fruitful marriage, but it definitely teaches you to trust better, improve your communication skills and make you appreciate your partner more.

1-night stand

Even if you do it only once, going home with a person you just met is one of those things that you need to tick off from your list. Experimenting is great, hence all this should be done before getting into a serious commitment.

Tinder type…

…Or any online relationship for that matter. You don’t even have to meet the person but if it happens that you do, then great! Be carefull not to get catfished though. What are the chances that your future husband will be okay with you buried in your phone chatting with another guy?


You know that new hot guy in the office, he’s still shy so you offer to show him around. Next thing you have a fling going on. It’s convenient beause you’re both there mostly five days a week. It hardly ever lasts because the excitement just dies down and it starts getting boring.

Older man

Dating an older man isnt all bad. Most of them are usually experienced so you can learn a thing or two, from literature, wine, and even sex.

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