Sex is not the only reason why men cheat, but for some it is. And here are the sex related reasons why he is likely to play away. A study by the University of Indiana in the US, has found there are certain sexual traits, such as feeling insecure and not taking sex seriously that mean a man's more likely to stray. HE'S INSECURE Guys who lack confidence in the bedroom are likely to cheat. Some of us learn at a young age that practice makes perfect, and for him, that could mean practising with other woman. Also, once your sex becomes a routine, you don’t pay as much attention to your partner and that can make him feel insecure about his performance. So be mindful, pay him compliments, and guide him when it comes to the things that you like in bed. HE'S EASILY AROUSED While most men are easily aroused more than women, some can be hard to keep up with. And if your libidos don’t match up, he might go looking for it elsewhere. You’re not obliged to give him sex on demand, but instead of giving him excuses all the time, try dedicating some time for sex. It doesn’t have to be sex in the traditional sense, but there are other ways you can both climax. Try role-playing, games, toys, and erotic massage to spice things up and add variety in your bedroom. HE'S NOT SAFE A guy that doesn’t care for protection, even when with you, is likely to be an irresponsible person. Reckless men are most likely to defy the rules, and may see no problem with sleeping with many women. You have to insist on using protection, and encourage him to go with you to have an STD screening. HE'S ADVENTUROUS Being adventurous is not necessarily a bad thing. It can be great to spice up your sex life. But if you’ve done all the sex moves you can possibly think of, and he’s still coming at you with new ones, you may have a problem here. Sometimes you just want to have normal connection with your partner, and it’s those times he might go looking for adventure elsewhere. Obviously, you shouldn’t do what you don’t want to. But, you can create a safe environment for him open up about fantasies and role-play those you agree with. Also, talk about what you also like in bed so that he knows what you’re into.
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