Author of Logic based therapy and everyday emotions, Dr Elliot Cohan believes that love-making involves thoughts and perceptions that unite rather than separate, alienate or divide.
He will look straight into your eyesRather than looking into the walls or windows, he will look right in your eyes. His eyes are able to communicate louder than words. Him wanting to get lost in your eyes can be very erotic and unify the two of you even more.
Not all men are able to do this though, some may be really shy whilst others are just manipulators, careful not to confuse the two.
Communication is a must for himThis is not a selfish guy. As much he’s seeking self pleasure, he’s also concerned about your personal needs. The communication can also be non verbal in a sense that you cuddle and talk about it afterwards.
He will accept your imperfectionsThere’s always an issue or two when it comes to sexual affairs. Issues such as insecurities about your body or not being comfortable doing certain sex positions. A man who’s not only interested in your body will not make you feel bad about this.
He takes his time with youIf he’s always rushing to penetration than taking his time to explore your body then know he’s more interested in the physical than connectingwith your mind.
He puts in the effort to set the moodThe whole idea of setting the mood is more of a women’s thing than it is of men. This is a beautiful gesture and shows that he wants to make you happy in all aspects, emotionally, physically and mentally.