Signs he’s using you for his own validation


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He always brags that he gets the prettiest women

A man who brags about such clearly has some insecurities and lack confidence. These type of men use women to uphold a certain status.

He’s more affectionate in public than he is at home

This is just to show others of how ‘happy’ you two are, even though you aren’t. He’s always seeking attention so he uses your relationship as a front.

He brags a lot and he want’s you to always agree with him

You have constantly tell him how good looking he is and all the other things he wants to hear.

He doesn’t know exactly the kind of person you are

Men like this often don’t care for the woman they’re dating. He doesn’t make the effort to learn even the simplest things about you because the world revolves around them and no-one else.

He treats you like arm candy

When out in public, you literally aren’t supposed to have a say or contribute to conversations because chances are you’ll upstage him and he doesn’t like that remember?

Everything seems fake

You can sense that something just doesn’t add up. Everything between you seems forced. Take a moment and decide whether this is really what you want.

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