You’re ‘fine’ with the way things are
Comfort is a difficult place to be in in a relationship. Couples should always find ways to improve themselves as this creates an elemet of surprise which is what’s needed to keep a relationship spark alive.
You walk around egg shells
Touching the topic of long term commitment is a no go area. Everyone but you seems to be making progress in their relationships whilst you’re in no man’s land. He never wants to talk about the future even after the many years you’ve spent together.
You’re often indecisive about important matters
Important decisions often require change and with change comes growth, in most cases. if important decision is an issue for the two of you then know that growing old together will be more of a dream than a reality.
You’ve never imagine how the future will look like
At some point in the relationship you need to wonder what life would be like when you’re now married or have your off-springs running around the house. If it’s been years and you still haven’t had these thoughts then there sure is a problem.
You care less about what the other does
You don’t want the admin of having to find another partner so you’d rather stick it out with your current one. Whether he cheats or not you really don’t care, the idea of having someone in your life is enough for you.
You feel that you have to make it work
The society often tells couples who’ve been together for many years that whatever happens you have it make it work because memories matter that much right?