‘It’s not you, it’s me’ is a phrase that’s very simple but so complex to understand.
You don’t have a routine and you’d like to keep it that wayBeing in the relationship means you need to change your routine in one way or the other, but you prefer going where the wind takes you. A relationship will require you to commit to dates and planning ahead and you’re not that kind of person.
You’re hostile towards the gender that you want to dateIt’s either you think all men are pigs and therefore you see the ones you date as that. You never see any good in people, hence you prefer being alone.
You don’t want to put any effortIf ever you get into a relationship, it’s mostly because you want someone to watch tv with you, cook for you and buy you gifts. In this case the effort you put in is close to nothing because you’re a mainly a taker and not a giver.
You don’t see the pointThere’s no point of doing something if you don’t see the point of it. It’s the same with you, you don’t see the point of being in a relatiionship and why you should waste your time with them.
You don’t understand peopleYou’re always in defend mode and you don’t know how to take a compliment. You don’t have the right emotions to be a decent person, which makes you a bad lover.
You get bored easilyMost, if not all your relationships ended not because of infedility but because you were now too bored and couldn’t stand the person any longer. The thought of being with someone for the long term makes you cringe.
Your past relationships were forcedIt’s either your friend hooked you up wit the guy or you just felt pitty for him, but none of your relationships were actually based on love and affection.