Terrible things men do that aren’t your fault


Here are other things you should never blame yourself for:

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Make you feel excluded

A guy who prioritises his friends over you is still a boy himself so let him be and find yourself a grown man. You’re his girlfriend not a booty call so he needs to act like it.

Making you a rebound

You didn’t drive him back to his ex’s hands, he was clearly still not over her and a relationship cannot work if one party is still stuck on the past. Just know he was doing a really good job at pretending, it’s nothing you did wrong.

Leading you on

Then there’s this guy who’ll flirt with you so much, ask you to be his plus-one, but never makes the move to ask you out. This is the kind that enjoys the attention he gets from flirting, there’ll never be anything more than flirting because him and commitment are enemies.

Sleeping with you and leaving

By now you should know that at some point in your life you’ll meet predators who enjoy sleeping with different women and leave them hanging. These are the most insecure men and you should never beat yourself about it.

Make bad remarks about your looks

A man that loves you will accept all you flaws and will never ask you to pretend to be someone you’re not.

Cheating on you

The moment a man cheats women start thinking there’s something wrong with them or they need to make themselves more ‘attractive’. Men don’t cheat because you’re less attractive, they’re just in constant need of attention and yours alone isn’t enough.

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