The successful man vs the not so successful one


Women want a man that’s aspirational, successful and knows what he wants. However, we don’t always get what you want, right?

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The successful one


  • You’re motivated to work harder.
  • They happen to be well-groomed, so less work for you.
  • They’ve got their lives together, so future plans can be on the cards.


These are the business owners, CEOs and those who have big titles.

  • You hear more about their problems more than he listens to yours.
  • You work around his schedule
  • Power struggles, which is to expected when the other makes more money.
  • Emotionally unavailable
  • High chances that he can leave you in the middle of your date for work.

The not so successful one

These are always on some hustle and you never really know what it is that they do.


  • They will give all the attention you need.
  • Studies show that they are better in bed.
  • They’ve got a creative personality.
  • They’re fun to be around.


  • They will feed of your hard work
  • Don’t think you can change them, they are often not willing to change for anything or anyone.
  • You cant discuss any future plans with them.
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