There’s a big difference in behaviour between a man who loves you and one who’s just not interested.
Ask you to pretendIf he genuinely loves you, he will never compare nor ask you to be someone you’re not. He would rather recommend to every other girl that they be like the amazing girlfriend he has in you.
Making you chooseMaking you choose between people you know have always had your back like family, is a red flag and should not be taken lightly. A man should value family and its importance.
Not wanting to listen to you ventIf he can’t listen to you letting out your frustrations about either work, family or better yet your relationship with him then you need to kick him to the curb.
Finds your laugh irritatingFor sure you know if your laugh is irritating and you don’t need a constant reminder about it. He isn’t allowed to find your quirks as flaws.
He’s forever keeping scoreWhen in a relationship you should be able to do things for each other without keeping score of who did what.
Puts his friends before youValidation from his friends shouldn’t matter. Whether or not his friends like you should not bother him. You’re dating him and not his entire entourage.
Disappear and reappear out of nowhereYou both might run very busy lives but a man who loves you will make time. This shows that even in the middle of his busy schedule he’s still thinking about you.