Life coach Nomase Sonqishe gives us tips on how to nurture your girl gang and take it to new heights.
Build a solid foundation
According to Sonqishe common interests and needs are what should form the basis of your relationship, as well as a sense of inspiration. “When people have the same life or professional objectives and goals, their relationship becomes stronger” says Nomase Sonqishe.
Maintain a healthy bond
Psychologist and international theorist, Audrey Katsidzira shares fundmental guidelines that will assist in building and solidifying such bonds.
· Be you: Being yourself is the best and easiest thing you could ever do for yourself. Attract people who are drawn to the qualities you possess.
· Live without seeking approval from others: This may be a challenge to most women because naturally we are rational beings who thrive on acceptance. But, always remember presenting a fake version of yourself to the world is draining.
· Embrace the difference: Each of your friends will have bring something different to your life.
· Develop trust: Choose people whose energy you connect with to support and demonstrate that they can depend on you.
We’ve compiled a list of our favorite local and international girl gangs:
Carol Bouwer, Basetsana Kumalo and Khanyi Dlomi are a solid girl squad and excelling in business.Ayanda Ncwane and Noma Gigaba show support to one another both in good and bad times.
Khloe Kardashian, Malika and Khadijah have been mates since a very young age. They are friendship goals!
Pearl Thusi and Dj Zinhle always have each other’s backs and their also raising their daughters together.
Minnie and her squad are a solid bunch.
Get more tips on how you can build your girl gang in our May issue. Get your copy in stores.