What the kind of men you attract says about you



The ‘I need fixing’ type

These are the type of men that are emotionally broken and dating them is like taking on a big project.

What it says about you:

  • You like making excuses for people.
  • It’s in your nature to always have a solution in case something goes wrong.

The bullies

The common characterists of these men include blaming you for everything that goes wrong and talking to you like you’re their child is a normal thing.

What it says about you:

  • You never know where to the draw the line.
  • You’re a pleaser.
  • Rather you suffer than your loved ones.

The taken type

If they aren’t married or engaged, they’re already in a committed relationship.

What it says about you:

  • You may protray signs of lack of self love and esteem.
  • You seem vulnerable and lonely.

Relationship expert Dr John Sklare says this has more to do with the men than with you. There’s only so much you can do to avoid them.

The leeches

These ones basically live off you. You always end up paying their bills and you never get the money back.

What it says about you:

  • You may seem insecure and needy.
  • You’ve shown them that you can’t live without them and they use this to their advantage to get you to maintain their lifestyle.

The narcissist type

They’re aware of their charm, charisma, and dashing looks and they make sure you don’t forget that.

What it says about you:

  • You’re a narcissist yourself
  • Your confidence and self love is on point
  • You enjoy giving out compliments as much as you like receiving them.
  • You like dating versions of yourself
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