Why having a secret relationship isn’t a good idea


Hiding your relationship can be due to many reasons. It may be by choice or it could be circumstantial, regardless, it’s never a good idea. Here’s why.

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Can’t ask for help

When you’re having a fight you can’t exactly call your friend to vent and you know how friends are such good stress relievers. It’s very sad to be alone when going through such problems.

Can’t go couple outings

Your friends who are in commited relationships go for double dates and you’re always left behind because they’re totally clueless that you’re dating.

No picture zone

When posting pictures on social media you can’t have a random guy on your picture with hearts and kisses emojis, it will raise eyebrows. Basically you can’t flaunt on how happy or how dashing your man is.

Communication is limited

You never know when to text or call because you might catch your secret bae at a bad time which can potentially lead to your relationship being exposed.

Need to be extra careful

When visiting each other you have to be extra careful not to leave any trace of you being there. No hair strands, lipstick on glasses, or any of your personal belongings behind.

You question yourself

Experts say you need to evaluate the reasons why your relationship is a secret. If it’s gravitated more to what you think people will say about you then you’re doing it for all the wrong reasons. Your happiness should always come first.

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