Why your body count shouldn’t matter

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It seems society has unanimously decided that the less sexual partners a woman has the better. But who came up with that rule anyway? Here’s why you should’t be bothered by this.

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It doesn’t change you as a person

Unfortunately women aren’t defined by the number of people they’ve slept with. There’s so much more to women than who they’ve shared a bed with. Just because you’ve slept with a certain number of people doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to make your partner happy.

It’s a double standard

Why is it that this ‘rule’ only applies to women and when the same scenario is used on men, they aren’t given the same amount of flak as women. The double standard here, is that with men it’s considered a normal ‘manly’ thing to do, but with women it’s so bizzare.

It causes resentment

Regardless of how small of a number you might have from your body count, you will still be judged for it. If you’re disclosing this to your partner chances are they’ll be asking themselves how they’re supposed to compete with your past sexual partners, and that really is on them.

It’s personal

Your body, your rules right? The only person you owe an explaination to is yourself. So you can question yourself all you want about your sexual choices and that’s okay, but for another person to want an explanation for this is out of line, it’s none of their business.

It’s for the experience

The next time someone tries to question your body count, you can answer by saying it’s for the experience. The more sex you have, the more you know what it is that you like in bed and what you don’t.

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