Everyone has their different love languages, which can take some getting used to. But there are some pretty bad ways to express love. It’s not a bad thing to express the feeling to your partner, but don’t go overboard.
Here are some bad habits you need to change
Let yourself too availableBeing part of a healthy relationship means that both of you are free to live your own lives separately at times. You also need time to yourself so you can’t give him your all because you will end up boring him and that can end your relationship.
Being intimate even when you don’t feel up to itIf you’re just not in the mood for some intimate time, then let him know. He should understand. Don’t force yourself to get intimate with him just because he’s in the mood. If you don’t feel up to it then don’t do it. If he loves you, it won’t be a big deal to him.
Buy him clothesYou might think it’s an innocent gesture to surprise him with some new clothes but to him you’re trying to change the way he dresses. How would you feel if he comes home with new clothes without consulting you? You will feel annoyed and think he doesn’t like the way you dress.
Befriending his friendsYou put too much effort in getting close with his friends to show that you love him. Don’t try to force the issue when it comes to getting closer to his friends. Yes, it would be cool for you to get along with them, but it’s different when you try to force the issue. You will come off as desperate.
You ignore all your male friendsYou might have a man in your life but you don’t need to shut every male friend you have; that means you’re practically incapable of casual social interaction with other men. That doesn’t send a good message to your man. Your man should be okay with you having other male friends.
