5 Signs you could be rushing commitment



Your eye is still wandering

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you won’t find other men attractive however, if you still drool and create your own little  ‘perfect family’ image in your head then you probably aren’t ready to commit just yet.


You still communicate with your exes

Commiting to yourself to one person generally means you’re ready to cut all ties with exes or anyone who may have a negative influence on your union. Exes can ruin even the most strongest relationships so if you still entertain such, it’s best you put commitment on hold.


Taking the big step doesn’t bother you

Some of your friends are getting married, moving in with their partners or having babies and you just cringe at the thought of all of that.


You’re obsessed with being alone

Usually when you commit it’s because you see a future with that person and you’re ready to spend the bulk of your time with him. ‘Me time’ is key for one’s sanity whether you’re in a relationship  or not however,  if spending time with your partner irritates you then you’re far from being ready.


Postponing the ‘the talk’

You keep telling yourself that you’re going to initiate that dreaded conversation with your man about the future. But as much as you believe that you’re ready, you can never get yourself to do it and funny enough, you’re totally fine with just winging it when it comes to relationships. 

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