How to resist snooping through his belongings


Do a self evaluation

Looking at yourself in the mirror will help you truly be honest with yourself. You’ll ask yourself uncomfortable questions like are you a hundred percent honest? And how would you feel if he went through your stuff? Betrayed right? Soon you should realise just how this is an invasion of his privacy.

How is he with other women?

There are men who’ll give you reason to snoop whilst other’s won’t. When out in public if he never flirts or gives you any reason to be suspicious then why should you go around snooping? This could backfire on you, especially if your partner has nothing to hide. Chances are, if he catches you red handed he’ll never trust you again.

What are you going to do?

Now that you’ve cracked his password and read his messages -what now? Are you going to confront him? Or you’re going to pretend like nothing happened?

Are you confident?

How confident are you in yourself and your relationship? If nothing makes you uneasy about you two then there really is no need to look for something that’s not there. This will only leave you with guilt that you won’t be able to rid off for the longest time.

Are his gadgets unlocked?

An unlocked phone or laptop clearly proves that he’s leaving everything out to the open and has nothing to hide. If there was anything he was doing wrong do you think he would leave his phone unattended with no password? We don’t think so.

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