‘I’m fine’ and other terms women wish men understood


‘I don’t care’

At times you really aren’t bothered but if you say it with very little eye contact chances are you do care and your man should just push enough to get you to open up. 


‘Go ahead’

This is usually a call for disaster. Many times when this is said during an argument you’re hinting to him to rethink his decision and actually do the total opposite of what you told him.


‘I’m fine’

If you are or have been in relationship chances are you’ve used this phrase more than once. More often than not this usually means the opposite. A partner that truly knows and understands you should be able to pick this up immediately. At times you don’t feel talking at that very moment and the only thing you can say is you’re fine, even when you’re far from it.


‘Leave me alone’

As opposed to men who want to be left alone after fight, some women want the opposite. The nature of most women don’t allow them to be okay with leaving matters unresolved hence he should be trying harder to make ammends even after you’ve told him to go away.


‘Do whatever you want’

If he’s being stubborn and not seeing your point of view paricularly regarding something that doesn’t sit well with you’ll say this just to get him off your back. A smart man should never take this to heart because he knows this will only get him in trouble.



This is usally the calm before the storm. There could be something wrong, however you aren’t comfortable addressing it immediately. Some women say this to allow themselves to calm down and assess the situation before lashing out on you. 

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