A guide to dirty talk


Pick your words carefully

Everyone has their own limits when it comes to dirty talk. So, as much you wouldn’t want your partner saying offensive words to you, make sure you understand your partners limits as well. Your partner has probably given you hints about what words turn him on the most so, think back to your most passionate night and use that as reference.

Put on your bedroom voice

This shouldn’t be hard to do because naturally when you’re turned on the sexy voice comes out. Decide on whether you’ll be doing this in person or over the phone. If you’re still not so confident about doing this we suggest you do it over the phone. Now, turn on that husky voice and drive your man crazy.

Give compliments

If you’re a newbie in this department, you might wonder about the right things to say without sounding desperate, right? You can start by giving him compliments. Be descriptive when talking dirty, feel free to tell your partner how he exactly makes you when you’re intimate. This should be enough to make the both of you yearn for one another.

Don’t forget to ask

There’s absolutely no harm in asking your partner what his preferences are if you’re not too sure with what to say or where to start. This can even add on to your foreplay if you do it right.

Use all senses

When you’ve adjusted to the idea of talking dirty you’ll be comfortable doing it in person and not only over the phone. A combination of dirty words, images, taste and smell will do wonders for your sex life.

Be confident

They say fake it till you make it right? So even if you’re unsure with what you’re doing pretend as though you’ve been doing this for the longest time. When you’re confident in yourself he’ll have no choice but to be confident in you as well.

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