Discover your sexual turn-ons

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Image: Getty Images
Image: Getty Images

Let your mind wander

Think about everything sensual and sexual. Can you remember those times or moments when you felt really turned on? Remember those sensual thoughts and visualise them clearly, and take it a step further too, just as long as it makes you want to keep your hands down there.

Touch yourself

Lie back or sit down in a comfortable place like your bed or a couch. Take off your clothes and feel comfortable with your own body. Once you’re relaxed, move your hands gently past your neck, breasts, and any other sensitive area that makes you feel nice. And eventually, place your hands down there and make round motions with your fingers.

Listen to your moans

Breathe slowly and deep, letting the air out of your mouth as you move your hands over the sensitive areas on your body. As you breathe harder and deeper, you’ll be able to moan easily without really trying that hard. And that always helps in arousing yourself a lot more than you think, because you’d be willing to let go and let your body control you.

Use fragrance

Use fragrant massage oils on your hands as you move them all over yourself. Pick the fragrance that creates an atmosphere of sensuality. Fragrance that reminds you of your sensuality like musk, lavender and orange blossom are perfect. They’ll help you relax.

Watch what excites you

Watching a bit of nudity can be exciting. Visit a few porn websites. There are a lot of varieties to choose from, so take your time. Don’t focus on turning yourself on right from the start, just enjoy the moment and the rest will follow.

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