How to deal with his small penis

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If you plan to be with him long term then the subject needs to be addressed. But that does not mean there needs to be a conversation; it just means that you need to be sneaky in how you handle things.

Here’s what to do if your man is lacking in the penis department:

Don’t let him know

Even if he asks you if it is too small and you want to say yes, don’t. All that will do is bruise his ego and hurt his self-esteem. Chances are if he is asking then he’s looking for some kind of compliment on his little member down there because he is feeling insecure.

Incorporate sex toys

Most men are more comfortable than they have been in the past about using sex toys in bed. If his small penis has stopped giving you pleasure then incorporate sex toys. There are toys out there designed to give more length and thickness to the penis; they are called sheaths. They are satisfying for both the woman and the man because the tight squeezing of the extender can be pleasing. 

It’s all about position

Consider some positions that can make sex feel better with his small penis. Having a small penis is not always a bad thing; you just have to figure out some flexible and creative positions to make it feel amazing. The angle is everything when it comes to sex positions. Try doing the doggy style, the penetration will feel deeper and be better for both of you. 

Foreplay

Foreplay is very important! So, if he doesn’t satisfy you with his penis, one way to make up for this is to increase the amount of foreplay the two of you enjoy, especially oral sex. Women have a majority of orgasms through oral sex anyway, so extended foreplay will give you more of what he would give you anyway.

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