How to schedule sex dates and still enjoy it

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Agree on this decision

If you intend on making this work, make sure you’re both on the same page. Most of us get caught up in our busy lives, which means sex is the last thing on our minds when you get home from a long day at work. Agreeing to do this shows you value your sex life and are willing to do anything to keep the fire burning.

What kind of schedule works for you

Do this according to your personalities to avoid getting bored. If you’re a detail-orientated person, sit down with a calender and work out which dates best suits you and set reminders. If you’re the consistent type, decide on the day that you’d like to be intimate, like Friday nights. We advise that you do this once a month to avoid being stuck in a routine.

Agree on minimum dates

For days when you don’t feel like having sex, rather focus on other intimate activities. It’ll allow you do other things besides the actual act such as masturbating or cuddling naked. In the process, should you feel like doing more than the minimum go ahead.

Consider it a real date

When your partner organises a dinner date you always make sure that you look the part, right? The same should apply for your sex date. Shave, put on your best lingerie, smell good and prepare the room. This will bring back the anticipation you lost along the way.

Take turns for planning

If you are in charge for all the planning this week, the next is his turn. That way you’re both putting in the work towards maintaining a healthy and balanced sex life.

Turn it into a game

Look back at who organised the most amazing sex dates and have a prize for the winner. This will keep you motivated to always do your best because nobody wants to lose right?

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