Signs he is into you

If there’s one thing men are notorious for, it’s their inability to say what they feel. When we try to ask them where the relationship is going, the best response we usually get is a grunt as they change the TV channel. There are certain things that a guy will do in bed that are just for the sake of having sex, but there are things which can be a sign that he loves you and wants to take the relationship further. These are the signals you should look out for if you want to know if he’s really into you.

1. He keeps his eyes open

Gazing into your partner’s eyes while you have sex intensifies the experience. If your man looks into your eyes and holds your gaze it’s a sign he loves you. Open-eyed sex shows he wants a real connection with you. If he looks up at you while he’s going down on you, or looks you in the eye when you’re giving him a blow job, that’s another sign that he wants to know you’re enjoying yourself and cares about your enjoyment too. 2. He loves your smell Does your man love snuggling under your arm, smelling your hair or going down on you?This means he loves your smell and taste. This only happens when a man feels really comfortable and connected to you.  A sign of deep attraction is loving you for what you really smell like, without deodorant and this doesn’t happen when you have just stepped out of the shower, smelling fresh.

3. He shares his fantasies 

Telling you his sexual fantasies shows that he trusts and loves you. If he starts the revelation with, ‘I can’t believe I’m telling you this’, it’s a big thing for him. He is doing it because he feels truly comfortable with you. You don’t necessarily have to act his fantasies out – just talking about them will bring you closer.

4. He makes lots of noise

Men tend to be quiet when they climax.They hold back for fear of feeling vulnerable or out of control, But if a man is truly comfortable with you he’s more likely to let go when he climaxes and make a lot of noise. When a guy makes a lot of noise in bed, it shows he’s let down his barriers. It means he feels safe with you and trusts you.

5. He’s happy to not have sex

If he’s horny but you’ve had a bad day and he’s fine with cuddling instead of sex, he definitely has strong feelings for you. If he’s not pressuring you or acting as if he is rejected, it’s because he wants to put your needs before his own. It shows his priorities have shifted from ‘I’ to ‘we’. He cares so much about you that your needs have become just as important to him as his own.
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