When you're just not in the mood for sex

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When you're just not in the mood. Image: Getty Images/Gallo Images
When you're just not in the mood. Image: Getty Images/Gallo Images

A couple of months ago, I came across a Twitter thread that candidly unpacked some of the factors that pushed women off sex. I found myself nodding as I read, especially the part that expressed how we often shied away from having such conversations as “girls” and with our partners, leaving us to deal with our sex anxiety, or loss of sexual drive and desire, alone. The thought of these factors often left the narrator sexually tense and scared.

This left me questioning how many of us just pushed through, forcing our minds and bodies to be sexually active even though the desire and drive has been killed by the many layers that have turned this pleasurable deed into an activity of discomfort or no interest. 

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