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Mzwandile Gideon Nonkula

Display name: SoSaysMyDad
About Me:

I am a Domestic Engineer. I am regal and blunt. I believe in READY, FIRE and AIM rather than READY, AIM and FIRE.

I am starting a movement about fathers changing the ways things have been since creation. We are making a stand saying that we are refusing to adhere to societal norms and we are throwing away the box.

My opinions do not seek to please or comfort but merely pointing you to the evidence of the real truth of the matter because the sooner we see it, the sooner we are able to come up with solutions.

We’ve just celebrated Christmas and blasted fireworks joyously but can we pause and ask if these festivities were enjoyed with complete families; a child having his/her Mom and Dad at one place.

There are a lot of reason fathers find themselves having to re-embark in the dating game. Worst of them all is the tragic loss of your longtime love while you are still young.

The loss of pride in our indigenous languages is not only driven by the parents because of the schools they send their children to, but also by the employment opportunities that dictate the medium of communication.

Well, I do do have experience I would one day use in defending my words when talking about how to be hands-on when you are an expectant father. Let me make it clear!

I believe that South Africans should kick off this year on a larger scale calling for the basic education fees to fall.

While exists the imposed belief that there is no manual for raising children, we find ourselves debating the biased narrative suggesting that women are somehow natural in this care giving gig.

We chose to dwell on the hair and how black people’s hair grow, how it should not be straightened instead of hopping on the real issues, but that is not what I was taken by.

My friends; Robert and Elizabeth had their first baby four years before they were married but carried on living separately and visiting each other on weekends.

Who are you to comment on how your child is disciplined at school when you, as a parent, fail to do it at home?

While the university students call for free and decolonised education, it's only proper for businesses to be proactive and help. After all, they have vested interests in their communities with their workforce and as well as their customers.

The treatment South African football teams get when they travel to northern countries is disgusting. Why isn't anyone doing something about this?


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