Woman's Tinder date tells her to lose weight and stop wearing makeup as part of a 15-item list of ‘improvements’

Woman having a cup of coffee
Woman having a cup of coffee

According to Unilad, after not hearing back from a guy she met on Tinder after their first date, 24 year old Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford didn't think much of it and went on about her life.

However, three months later, to her surprise the guy she met got in contact with her on Snapchat.

But instead of asking her on another date, the guy whose name on Tinder is Luke James, took it upon himself to explain to Kimberley exactly why he didn't get in contact with her after their first date.

And lets just say, he wasn't being the nicest.

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In a detailed list, Luke explains all the issues he had with Kimberley on their date and even goes as far as commenting on her physical appearance, making suggestions about where she should be shopping for clothing.

Not only that, but he also became super pedantic when Kimberly offered to pay the bill once they had finished their dinner.

In a direct message on Snapchat he wrote,  "Hello Kimberley, I know we went on a date quite a while ago now, but I'd like to explain why I haven't messaged you. I feel like you could have made the date much better, here's a few reasons why."

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He starts off with "I apologise if I offend you." And then goes on to say; "If you lost some weight you would look incredible. Maybe about a stone (about 6kg) or so. You are very pale. I know you aren't a fan of the sun but a bit of fake tan won't hurt."

"You need to dye your hair a normal colour and add extensions. Longer hair is much more attractive. Your lips have gone down so you should think of getting more filler. You have really big boobs you should show more cleavage," he adds.

After telling her to lose weight, use fake tan, dye her hair and get extensions and get more lip fillers, show more cleavage, he goes on to say she was wearing too much makeup and she needed to look natural.

He said, "You need to look more natural."

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"Just make yourself look decent but don't overkill it."

Unfortunately for Kimberley, the hurling of insults doesn't end there.

Luke then tells Kimberly that by wanting to take things slowly, she comes across like a prude. He then further highlighted how she had bruised his ego by refusing to kiss him.

Read the full list of bizarre unsolicited "tips" Luke so unkindly decided to share with Kimberly below:

The vile list of 15 'improvements' included requests to get more lip filler, wear fake tan, dye her hair and show off her cleavage

At the end of his list, Luke then goes on to tell Kimberly that if she were to use his "advice" he might consider another date with her. He also gives her a time period to get started.

The nerve.

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