#MyTruth - 'I asked my husband to bring another woman into our marriage, when he did I got jealous'


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Here is Nozzy’s story:

I thought I could handle bringing a third party into our marriage. I'm this liberal girl. I am loved and given so much attention from my husband. However, I still fantasized about us being with a third partner.

When I raised this with him, he first told me it's okay but then changed his mind because he didn't think he could perform knowing that I'm right there watching and participating. 

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Then I left it alone, but a few years later, I revisited the idea. He agreed, but only this time, he brought the other woman. 

I was excited. We clicked and had a mind-blowing session. I also decided that they could meet without me. I thought I would be ok with it. I know he loves me and still wants me. I'm his number one, so I wasn't worried. 

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Sometime later, I reached out to her. I was talking about meeting for a drink via WhatsApp. Then I told my husband that I wanted us to meet again, and that's when I found out they had met without me, and I became very jealous. 

I was just sad. I thought I was going to lose him to this new woman. I was upset with myself for wanting us to bring her into our lives and felt as if he was giving her more attention than me. 

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Jealousy was seriously brewing. He calmed me down but asked that we don't meet again. But I had such a mind-blowing intense experience that I really couldn't stop fantasizing about the three of us. We have planned to meet again soon. I cannot wait.

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* The name has been withheld to protect Nozzy's privacy.

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