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I thought I could handle bringing a third party into our marriage. I'm this liberal girl. I am loved and given so much attention from my husband. However, I still fantasized about us being with a third partner.
When I raised this with him, he first told me it's okay but then changed his mind because he didn't think he could perform knowing that I'm right there watching and participating.
Then I left it alone, but a few years later, I revisited the idea. He agreed, but only this time, he brought the other woman.
I was excited. We clicked and had a mind-blowing session. I also decided that they could meet without me. I thought I would be ok with it. I know he loves me and still wants me. I'm his number one, so I wasn't worried.
Sometime later, I reached out to her. I was talking about meeting for a drink via WhatsApp. Then I told my husband that I wanted us to meet again, and that's when I found out they had met without me, and I became very jealous.
I was just sad. I thought I was going to lose him to this new woman. I was upset with myself for wanting us to bring her into our lives and felt as if he was giving her more attention than me.
Jealousy was seriously brewing. He calmed me down but asked that we don't meet again. But I had such a mind-blowing intense experience that I really couldn't stop fantasizing about the three of us. We have planned to meet again soon. I cannot wait.