Are you going through consistent toxic highs and lows? Here's how to maintain a drama-free relationship

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Partners in drama-filled relationships may treat each other with disregard and very little respect, attempt to control and manipulate each other.
Partners in drama-filled relationships may treat each other with disregard and very little respect, attempt to control and manipulate each other.
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Some people thrive on drama. To them, there has to be a bit of drama in their relationship. It could be unnecessary fights, arguments over none issues and provocation to get a reaction. It sounds a little weird, but it happens. 

Relationship architect Shelley Lewin says a drama-filled relationship is defined by its many highs and lows. It is much like a frequent emotional rollercoaster of excitement, fury, or suffering.

If you are probably wondering what this kind of relationship looks like, Shelley says the Amber Heard and Johnny Depp trial was a classic case of what being in one is like. 

READ MORE | 8 signs it is time to let go of a relationship that doesn't serve you anymore

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