Can you love someone too much?

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The "he needs me, so I can't leave him” love

"My approach to relationships is completely unbalanced," says Cathy, 25. "I'll go on dates with guys I'm not interested in because I think I can help their confidence or self-esteem, and then sort of release them back into the wild as you would an injured bird that's been nursed back to health.

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