28-year-old woman says her weight gain has made her marriage stronger

Aimee Kilgour is now unable to fit into her wedding dress. Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS
Aimee Kilgour is now unable to fit into her wedding dress. Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS
  • Aimee Kilgour, 28, was unhappy when she was a size six but now, a few sizes up, is oozing with confidence.
  • She never went out to eat at restaurants with her husband because she restricted herself to foods with no diary, gluten, wheat or soy.  
  • At the heaviest weight she's ever been, she says her relationship is the strongest.

Aimee Kilgour, 28, felt insecure and unhappy when she was a size six, but now she oozes with confidence as a size 12.

The stay-at-home mom followed a strict diet and exercise regime to keep a low weight - like she did before giving birth to Kaiden, six, Jackson, three and Callie, two - but the weight loss brought her no joy. 

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But now, one year on, Aimee weighs 12 stone (76 kilograms) and couldn’t be happier. She says her relationship with Kyle, 31, has "dramatically improved". 

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Aimee enjoying life as a size 12. Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS  

She says: “I thought Kyle would find me more attractive if I looked the way I did when we first met but actually he prefers me now. 

“I didn’t look healthy and I certainly wasn’t happy like I thought I would be - dieting made me miserable and I was always comparing myself to others online. 

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“By losing weight, I was trying to be someone I’m not and it made me feel so insecure and jealous of other girls who were smaller of me. 

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Aimee as a size six. Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS 

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Aimee now, a size 12 and more confident.  Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS  

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“Kyle and I wouldn’t go out for meals or stay in with a take-away as I would refuse to eat anything that contained diary, gluten, wheat or soy. 

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Aimee in her wedding dress that no longer fits.  Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS    

“Now I eat whatever I like, I’m not super healthy but I’m not terrible - I am just no longer depriving myself of curries or other foods I enjoy. 

“Now, dinner is our favourite time as we put our phones away and have a good catch up with one another and the children whilst tucking into the same meal whether that be pizza or a healthy meal I have cooked. 

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Aimee and husband Kyle.  Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS   

“I am the biggest I have ever been but I don’t care as I am in a good place and our relationship is the strongest it has ever been. 

“We have a laugh and I joke about my ‘mum tum’ whereas before I was worrying about getting down another dress size or having a gap between my thighs.” 

Aimee now feels she can be the best "role model" for her daughter as she is showing her that "size doesn’t matter". 

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She adds: “I’ve always been the type of person to try and seek happiness somewhere rather than looking at what I’ve got. 

“Despite having a wonderful family and loving husband, I thought being slim would make me happy. 

“I have read a lot of personal growth books to get to where I am today but I have realised it is what matters on the inside rather than the out.” 

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Aimee enjoying a McDonald's. Photo by @thesocialmama.xo / CATERS NEWS 

Despite ditching her diet, Aimee has no objection to other people finding happiness through diet and exercise. 

She says: “I am so supportive of others and I am absolutely not ‘skinny shaming’ anyone. 

“A small frame just doesn’t suit me anymore - I looked unhealthy. This is just my own personal and I’m not judging anyone else.” 

Story courtesy of @thesocialmama.xo / Caters News /magazinefeatures.co.za

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