You've slept with him on the first date? Now what do you do next?

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Deal-breaker or no deal-breaker?

It started as a romantic evening, but before long, you're back at his place - and in his bed. Deal-breaker, right? The old school might say so, but relationship expert Katia Loisel-Furey disagrees. Her research in Real People - Real Answers, a sex and dating survey of 1 500 singles globally, found that 75 percent of guys still see marriage potential in a girl who sleeps with them on the first date. "Holding out on sex doesn't mean he'll be more likely to commit or that you'll be any more compatible," she says.

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