It's up to you how it's done. A sunset beach ceremony followed by dinner and dancing, or an intimate lunch for your nearest and dearest after you sign the papers at the registry office? However, you decide to tie the knot is entirely up to you.
"You're grown up enough to know what you want, and there's no need to conform," says wedding planner Susan Stanford, from Susan Stanford Events. Being free of rules also extends to what you wear.