No beans about it

2012-02-02 10:02

I wasn’t going to do this two-days running. But for goodness sake…. who would’ve thought calling an unborn child a bean would spew forth such vitriol….Here are some real beans…errrr….gems….

“Well, it depends... If its a grown-up person in a healthy relationship that can afford it, it's WONDERFUL, but if it's school girl who cannot complete het education,&cannot afford to care for a baby, no supporting father-figure, or an HIV+ person, it is a tragedy...&the birth of a sad, poor kid without a good life. Babies should be planned…” – I’m flattered, maybe I should change that profile pic. I obviously am an uneducated, under-achieveing, HIV+, baby-daddyless teen, with no prospects to offer my unborn bean.

“Common article at this time of the morning. Talking of the baby as the 'bean' did i understand that correctly?is realy pathetic! To be pregnant is a wonderful experience, and talking bout it with other people just grate!” – I don’t want or have to talk to any and everyone about this, if you think it’s great, I mean grate, go ahead….talk about it all you like. Make your own day. And stay out of mine.

“@Essie - you know by reading what you've written, I come to the conclusion that you must never have fallen pregnant in the first place - it's utterly disgusting how you can talk about a baby as a 'bean' and 'it' ! I pity that the BABY is having you for a 'thing' , I think 'Mother' is the word!! – The ‘Thing Mother’ of ‘the Bean’ will keep this in mind!

“If she did'nt want the baby in the first place why fall pregnant? Ever heard of condoms and contraceptives Essie? Its free you know and if that ''bean'' does'nt fit into your life theres plenty of willing and loveing couples awaiting that baby to adopt. When you open your legs expect a surprise after nine months.” – That one floored me, didn’t see that one coming. Errr…..seriously?

Really? If I have offended any wanting-to-share-every-detail-of-my-grate-journey fellow mothers-to-be out there, may I be prostrate with nausea for my ungrateful utterances about…shock, horror…the bean!

p.s….I happen to really like beans. A lot…..and it’s not a pregnancy craving thing!

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