“My business and marriage have gone down the drain” – Dr Louise answers your burning questions

I have been wondering about my life and how I got into my present mess. I was 20 when I married my first husband.

He was a good guy but very boring and after five years I couldn’t take it anymore and started having an affair. This led to our divorce as he discovered my infidelity and couldn’t forgive me.

At the age of 30, I married for a second time with great hopes of having the happily-ever-after with husband No 2.