Every year on 23 March the family would gather to celebrate her daughter’s birthday with a cake and snacks, but she always battled to join in.
For Antoinette*, the occasion marked nothing but heartache – a reminder of the day she delivered her perfect baby girl and the day she lost her.
But on 23 March next year the occasion will finally be a happy one. Mbali* has been found after 20 years of desperate searching, the hopelessness replaced by relief.